Tonight I'm going to read about pkgsrc and tomorrow give a try. It has active community last time I used it few years ago. Seems to have also binaries available at http://pkgsrc.joyent.com/install-on-osx/
My quick notes on how to get started with pkgsrc
More info: http://pkgsrc.org/
http://wiki.netbsd.org/pkgsrc/pkgsrc_64bit_osx/
# Download pkgsrc
curl -O https://ftp.netbsd.org/pub/pkgsrc/stable/pkgsrc.tar.bz2
# validate shasum
$ curl -O https://ftp.netbsd.org/pub/pkgsrc/stable/pkgsrc.tar.bz2.SHA1
$ cat pkgsrc.tar.bz2.SHA1
$ shasum pkgsrc.tar.bz2
# extract pkgsrc archive. Mine lives at ~/Work and I also install built packages under Work.
$ tar jxvf pkgsrc.tar.bz2
# bootstrap
$ cd pkgsrc/bootstrap
$ ./bootstrap --abi=64 --prefer-pkgsrc=yes --unprivileged --compiler=clang --prefix="$HOME/Work/pkg"
# append prefix/bin to your PATH
$ cat ~/.bash_profile
export PATH="$PATH:$HOME/Work/pkg/bin"
# re-login to make PATH effective
# Example build of dos2unix (poor example because lots of dependencies like perl...)
$ cd pkgsrc/converters/dos2unix/
$ bmake install
...
===> Installing binary package of dos2unix-7.3.3
$ file ~/Work/pkg/bin/dos2unix
/Users/petri/Work/pkg/bin/dos2unix: Mach-O 64-bit executable x86_64