Yeah, there comes a point where someone must accept defeat regarding the Bay Area's unaffordability. Mega-commuting for more affordable housing sounds appealing on paper but quickly gets draining and is unsustainable, from both a personal and environmental standpoint. I used to commute 50 miles each way every day for a few months back in 2015 and ended up sucking it up and paying the higher rent to live closer to the office due to the effects the commute were having on me. I believe part of the reason why San Joaquin County had so many foreclosures in 2008 was because of mega-commuters dealing with $4+/gal gas for the first time.

I don't mind doing a long commute once or twice a week, especially when I have flexible work hours, but anything more often than that becomes draining.